“Don’t you like anything happy?”
I remember having that question posed to me several years ago regarding my music collection. This was before the days of mp3 players, so all I could really do to figure out an answer was to look at my collection of CD’s. Now, though, all I have to do is plug in my iPod and peruse the list of songs that pops up before me.
This will sound sort of silly, but getting a 160GB iPod for Christmas a few years ago pretty much changed how I collect songs these days. Whereas I was once miserly with the 16GB of memory on my previous iPod, I suddenly realized one day that I would have to just go completely crazy to fill up 160GB of memory. As a result, I began grabbing any song that was even remotely appealing to me and adding them to my collection.
As evidenced by the “Tuneful Tuesday” posts I write here, my collection of somewhat morose music is still quite impressive. Let me just hit a few of the highlights right now…
– Johnny Cash, “Hurt”
– King’s X, “Dogman”
– Duran Duran, “Ordinary World”
– Echosmith, “Cool Kids”
– Elvis Costello, “All This Useless Beauty”
– Eminem (featuring Rihanna), “The Monster”
– Eric Clapton, “Tears In Heaven”
– Hootie & the Blowfish, “I Hope That I Don’t Fall In Love With You”
– John Hiatt, “Crossing Muddy Waters”
– Kansas, “Dust In The Wind”
– The Gaslight Anthem, “Break Your Heart”
I could go on and on, but you get the point. There’s a lot of less-than-happy stuff on there. As someone who has struggled with depression, however, I think I almost felt like that was the kind of music I should be drawn to. If I’m in a down mood, I should listen to down songs, right? At least, that was my reasoning.
Without realizing what I was doing, though, I gradually began to debunk that theory. Sure, there are certainly times when I just want to listen to something I can wallow in, but for the most part, I’m beginning to find that songs that are more upbeat in nature have a tendency to make me more upbeat as well. (I’m sure about half of you just smacked your foreheads and said “Duh” to that last statement.)
With that in mind, here are some of the more unexpected songs that have their way onto my iPod recently and managed to bring a smile to my face…
– DJ Jazzy Jeff & the Fresh Prince, “Boom! Shake The Room”
– Katy Perry, “Roar”
– Mark Ronson (featuring Bruno Mars), “Uptown Funk”
– Asia, “Days Like These”
– Beastie Boys, “(You Gotta) Fight For Your Right To Party”
– Blackalicious, “Alphabet Aerobics”
– Bobby Brown, “My Prerogative”
– Carbon Leaf, “Life Less Ordinary”
– Georgia Satellites, “Keep Your Hands To Yourself”
– Jet, “Are You Gonna Be My Girl”
– MC Hammer, “U Can’t Touch This”
You’re probably getting the picture by now. One, my musical tastes are extremely eclectic. Two, for some reason, rap and hip-hop songs seem to be amusing to me. And, three, I probably have too much time on my hands. Nevertheless, not counting several Hozier songs I downloaded recently, I have noticed at least a slight uptick in the number of more lighthearted songs on my iPod.
Now, do I think a person’s playlist defines who they are? Certainly not. Some of the happiest people I know enjoy some of the saddest songs ever written. If you’re noticing a distinct lack of levity on your mp3 player, though, you might want to consider freshening up your library a bit. Music is there to help us grieve, but it is also there to help us celebrate. Like all things in life, striking the right balance is the key.